As anybody who lives in the U.S. knows, we are finding ourselves seriously divided by many issues: faith, politics, morality, security, "family values", and especially how to respond to perceived threats to the above. Unfortunately we have also seemingly lost the ability to have respectful, open dialogue over these issues and are instead yelling across the divide, demonizing those who disagree with us (often using "straw men" stereotypes) in what seems to be a desperate need to be "right" on all things. The red state/blue state divide is, in fact, only the tip of the iceberg as the chasm runs much deeper than politics, not only separating those of different faith cultures and backgrounds but even those within a single faith tradition.
I am very mindful of this "yelling across the divide" these days on several fronts. First, to some extent and over some issues it is happening at our school which leaves teachers (me included) very uncertain and even fearful as to what issues/questions are "OK" to unpack with kids without scathing criticism, unfounded accusations, and/or losing our jobs. Secondly, to some extent and over some issues it is also happening in my extended family as we find it increasingly difficult to talk about certain things with objectivity, openness, and respect.
In the midst of these minefields, I occasionally encounter conversations between individuals holding differing perspectives to be both hopeful and encouraging. One such conversation has been made into a DVD entitled Purple State of Mind metaphorically combining the colors red and blue into a "purple" conversation between Craig Detweiler, a film maker and Christ-follower, and John Marks, a journalist formerly with 60 Minutes and US News & World Report who was once a Christ-follower but who has since walked away from faith. John and Craig are long time friends having been roommates in college year ago (when John was still "in Christ"). Now they are both chronicling their journey, Craig in the form of the film and John in the writing of a book entitled Reasons to Believe: One Man's Journey Among the Evangelicals and the Faith He Left Behind. I recommend both the book and the movie for anyone who is discouraged about the yelling. While not for the faint of heart (or for those who think they are "right" on all things), Craig and John clearly model an openness and loving attitude toward their differences which gives me hope for the days ahead. In fact, I'm trying to figure out if/how I can use their conversation in the context of my classes this fall. Without a doubt I will be criticized for using Craig and John because they are not "right" on everything (and fuzzy on plenty) but I am so attracted by the possibility of civil and respectful conversation in the midst of our differences that I can't resist the attractivenss of their model. All the more important in what is sure to be a dreadfully destructive election process this fall.



