Yesterday I exchanged emails with a pastor/friend who candidly expressed major frustration that most of us continue to "suck at the tit of Christendom" in living out our faith. Not only did I agree with his assessment, but I went on to suggest my opinion that the spectator-mentality inherent in Christendom has become a major impediment to faith! In fact, often without knowing it, modern-day Christendom has taken on an almost voyeuristic (or "peeping tom") approach to faith. . . allowing the vast majority to watch a much smaller minority of people "do it" from afar (in this case, engaging the world) which in reality reduces the majority to little more than "consumers of religious goods & services" during the week.
All one needs to do is observe the pressures that "attractional" churches must face on a regular basis. They not only have to meet the massively diverse expectations that individuals bring into the building regarding "church" and it's "programs" but they have to do so with a flash, flair, and excellence that will retain members who otherwise might find (as consumers of religious goods & services) somewhere else to "meet their needs".
I actually have another pastor/friend who was driven from the church in general and church ministry in particular over this very issue. As a pastor of a smallish church, he simply couldn't provide or meet the expectations that everyone brought into the building re: youth groups, infant care, small groups, etc. He tried. . . in fact he struggled mightily over a number of years but, driven to exhaustion, he finally had to fold his very gifted cards and leave. Lest anyone think this tale has a sad ending, my pastor/friend is thriving very nicely now, working a "secular" job and surrounded by friends (many not Christians) who share his passion for art. He has not yet returned to "church" but has a wonderfully dynamic ministry all the same.
So how long are we going to "suck at the tit of Christendom"?
