I have been spending important ponder time on a story Hugh told at the Missio conference last month. Hugh is a "Harley-guy" after being gifted a legendary Harley-Davidson motorcycle some time ago. Apparently owning a Harley comes with a unique greeting to other Harley-guys that you pass on the road. Awhile back, Hugh actually caught the Harley greeting from a guy riding a non-Harley cycle and was undecided as to how to respond. . . whereupon, after a quick thought, Hugh rode by the guy without acknowledging his out-of-context greeting because, using Hugh's words, "that guy was not my people"!
Like me, your initial reaction might be to think Hugh unloving, uncharitable, or perhaps even a tad arrogant. But, after his subsequent explanation, I found myself in hearty agreement. "My people", in Hugh's parlance, refers to those with whom we find a special connection in the deepest of brotherly (or sisterly) affection. Words like "chemistry", "kindred spirits", or "unspoken commonality" come to mind. As Hugh suggested (and by this definition), not everyone can, are, or should be "my people" and the difference is not one of value (as in "I am better than you") so much as it is who we are and what we can handle relationally. While not everyone can, realistically or otherwise, be "my people", Hugh continued by saying that not even all "Christians" are "my people". In fact, many are not! Yes, we may be brothers and sisters in Jesus but, as every failed small group would attest, Christ-in-common is no guarantee of anything! And, given the Christian tendency to "should on each other", I find Hugh's words to be refreshingly liberating.
But, to me, this also begs the question "Who then are my people?" in my own life, the people I find most affinity with as co-conspirators in or outside of God's Kingdom. Who are the "my people" to whom I am most committed whether spoken or not? And, finally, is there a community or communities to whom I would, eagerly and without reservation, "marry myself to" as a demonstration of that affection?
For my own spiritual health and well-being, I hope to more specifically identify "my people" in the coming days!
